Service on a minor at least 12 years of age is made by serving the minor and the parent, guardian, conservator, or similar fiduciary, or if one of them cannot be located with reasonable diligence, then by serving any person having the care or control of the minor or with whom the minor resides or by whom the minor is employed, unless that person is the defendant. The minor is not served if less than 12 years of age. (PC 1328)